Trump Reveals Why Melania Skipped Ireland Trip
President Donald Trump explained why first lady Melania Trump did not accompany him on his trip to Ireland, sharing a characteristically sharp response from his wife that drew laughter from the audience.
Trump addressed Melania’s absence Saturday while speaking with U.S. Embassy personnel, business leaders and other guests at the American ambassador’s residence in Dublin.
As the president recognized officials in attendance, he turned his attention to U.S. Ambassador to Ireland Edward Walsh and his wife, before noting that the first lady was following the event from home.
“My wife is here in spirit, she’s watching right now,” Trump told the audience.
The president said Melania had asked him to convey her regards because she was friendly with the ambassador and his wife.
Trump then recalled asking why she did not simply join him for the journey across the Atlantic.
“I said, ‘Why don’t you come with me?’” Trump recalled.
According to the president, Melania pointed out that the flight would take seven hours before joking, “Maybe I’m not that friendly.”
The first lady’s dry punch line immediately sparked laughter inside the ambassador’s residence.
Trump said he made one more attempt to persuade her, suggesting she could put on a Make America Great Again hat and travel with him.
“But she sends her regards,” Trump said.
Melania’s office had confirmed ahead of the visit that she did not plan to accompany the president to Ireland.
She had appeared beside Trump on Friday morning during the 25th-anniversary September 11 observance at the Pentagon. The president departed Washington for Ireland later that evening.
Trump’s two-day visit included meetings with Irish President Catherine Connolly and Taoiseach Micheál Martin, followed by a visit to the Irish Open at his Doonbeg golf resort.
Several Trump family members traveled to Ireland, including Donald Trump Jr.
The president soon shifted from joking about Melania’s decision to teasing his eldest son about married life.
Trump said Don Jr. had “calmed down” since marrying Bettina Anderson in May, joking that his son now possessed “a little less energy.”
The president appeared pleased with the change and said his son seemed happy following the marriage.
The family anecdotes brought a relaxed and personal tone to remarks that also addressed U.S.-Irish relations, administration officials and the delegation traveling with Trump.
The president joked that members of his administration were considerably more enthusiastic about visiting Ireland than certain other foreign destinations.
“Everyone wanted to come,” Trump said.
He declined to name the less desirable destinations but observed that some international trips can be “rough,” prompting another round of laughter.
Trump’s visit combined formal diplomacy in Dublin with an appearance at the Irish Open, hosted at Trump International Golf Links and Hotel Ireland in Doonbeg.
His meetings also produced serious political headlines after the president said he would “love” to see a reunified Ireland—a sensitive issue because of Northern Ireland’s constitutional status and the region’s history.
Yet Trump’s story about the first lady emerged as one of the visit’s most memorable lighter moments.
President Trump said that although his wife Melania Trump decided to sit out the two-day visit to Ireland, she's there "in spirit" and sends her regards.
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😂 HILARIOUS: President Trump on First Lady Melania skipping the Ireland trip:
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“My wife is here in spirit. She’s watching right now. She said, ‘Say hello,’ because she’s very friendly with these two people. I said, ‘Well, why don’t you come with me?’ She said, ‘Well, it’s a…
There was no suggestion that illness, scheduling trouble or disagreement prevented Melania from traveling. According to Trump, she simply concluded that a seven-hour transatlantic flight was too much for the occasion—and delivered the trip’s best punch line from Washington.